So I must tell you about last night and what it says about the physical aspect of our relationship. Many who are reading here are used to reading my wife's accounts of her sexual journey where the main topic has been her exploration of the bdsm lifestyle and the affairs that, in part, resulted from this. One of the reasons she sought the affairs had to do with her desire to investigate being the submissive in a sexual relationship. In our discussions when she brought this up she used generic terms that in my mind conjured up visions of latex suits, gags, whips, chains and a lot of fairly deviant behaviors. When she would mention, in passing in conjunction with a TV show, the lifestyle is always seemed to be in conjuction with a scene where the worst aspects of bdsm were portryed, i.e.-the degredation of a woman by a man or the objectification of a woman as a object that existed only for the man's pleasure or fantasy fulfillment. Probably this is because this is about all Hollywood understands the culture (i.e.-the practice at its extremes) but the use of such discussions starters where always a definite turn-off for me.
After the discovery of the affairs we discussed my wife's need for this sort of thing. In her journey "out there" she found that the more extreme parts of the lifestyle didn't appeal much to her but she did find that she enjoyed some parts of it. She was quite surprised that not only didn't I have a problem with those parts but that I had been wanting to bring them into our sex play for some time. So this is what has now happened and what it has allowed me and us to do is to engage our imaginations to enhance our sexual time together. We can now take the physical, intimate part of our relationship and, when we wish, include it in our need and desire for play. What follows is an account of by her husband of our evolving and growing physical relationship. I will warn you that it is long and somewhat graphic and that if you have neither the patience or the desire for these, you should skip past this remainder of this post.
Last night was a combination of role playing and light bondage/domination. I had been planning the evening for several days but could not come up with a theme. We had done some bondage play previously since the affair and I wanted this to be more than "tie her up" and have my way with her. As we spent some time watching TV prior to my planned evening I happened to see a girl in a short, plaid schoolgirl skirt and it all fit together. That morning I had left her instructions; she was to bring herself to climax three times during the day. During the day I had sent her a couple of naughty notes expaining that I would have her that evening without fail or excuse. Failure to do so would result in punishment. As our time together approached, she became more affectionate and even a bit passionate.
At the appointed time I sent her upstairs to prepare. She was to wear a schoolgirl skirt she had recently purchsed and white stockings without any underwear. When I came upstairs I found her waiting for me in the skirt and a tight white blouse that showed the outline of her breasts and the perfect firmness of her nipples while pretending to hide them. I am absolutely captivated by her nippples so the outfit was perfect. As I joined her in kneeling on the bed we kissed passionately and I tied her hands together in front of her. I had figured out how the evening was going to go. I was the professor and here was a student at my mercy who needed an "A".
After some passionate kissing and an exploration of her body with my hands I laid her back on the bed and tied her hands to the headboard. Then laying beside her I asked her to recount her times of self-pleasuring for the evening. As she "turned in her homework" I distracted us both by fingering her pussy and playing lightly with her nipples. Soon though I found them too enticing and moved my mouth to them as she told me of her day's excursions. As she finished I asked her what she would do to get an A now that her homework was done. When she replied, "anything, professor" I asked if she would come for me and she said "yes". I asked if she would let me fuck her over my desk. She said, "yes". I asked if she'd take my hard cock in her mouth. She said "yes".
I then told her it was time for her "exam". She would be scored on the number of orgasms she had but she had to tell me when she was having each one to receive credit and that there would be several parts. First was the dactyl stimulation portion of the exam. As a slid my finger over her clitoris I reminded her of the way the exam was scored. Still, when she came she forgot to tell me and I informed her that it wouldn't count for credit. She begged for me to accept late work and so I gave her half-credit. As I returned to my examination of the student I alternated between flicking my fingertip over her clit and slidding my middle finger into her and stimulating her G-spot and she came and came and came. Each time she had to hold back her climax to tell me she was going to come and each time I enjoyed watching the struggle in her face, hearing the desperation in her voice and feeling the final release. After she scored a full five points on that section of the exam it was time to move to part two.
This was the backside part of the exam and I rolled her over onto her stomach. As I caressed what must be one of the finest asses on the planet I began to spank her. She had been mouthy at the grocery store, I told her, and this was her punishment. In fact, her punishment would have been much more severe has she not done her homework but she had been a good girl so the belt was not necessary. I then took out an anal dildo we had purchased a few years back and proceeded to slowly insert it. At first it excited her but soon it became uncomfortable enough that she used our safe word and I stopped. Unfortunatley she had not come so she didn't get any points there. I switched to using my finger as it is smaller and I can control the placement and pressure much better and soon thereafter she was able to come though only once. As I looked at her redddened ass I decided it was time to fuck her for the first time and so we moved to do that but found it a little difficult to get everything positioned at the right height. Soon though I slid into her pussy and was filling her with short power strokes while I spanked her a bit more. I like to make love to my wife from behind because I can do so many things while we fuck and this night the extra spice was the sound of her cries mixed with the fat and sharp sound of my hand on her ass. Soon she was telling me that she was going to come again and she pushed herself back against me to heighten and prolong the release. I removed myself from her, that part of the exam finished.
I rolled her over for the oral portion of the exam and tied her legs to the footboard. In time my tongue found it's way to her clitoris and she began to writhe in pleasure. One after another I brought her to 4 orgasms and then slid a finger into her to combine what my tongue and teeth were doing with pressure from my finger on those sensitive places inside. I was rewarded by a powerful climax and her expressive cries soon after. As I pulled back and looked down at my wife I was so turned on. She was laying on the bed, tied to headboard and footboard, with her schoolgirl skirt up over her hips revealing her obviously excited flower of womanhood and the thin shirt just down over her hardened nipples. As I looked down at her thought to myself that this was so much better than all of the fantasies I had ever imagined growing up. With this though in mind I laid down upon her and began to make love to her. At first, I left her legs tied so that all she could do was receive what I gave her. I kept my strokes shallow but seemed to find a place that drove her crazy and she came twice in rapid succession. I then asked her if she wanted me to release her legs. I asked her to tell me why I should do that and what she would do if I did. She told me that she wanted me deeper and longer inside of her. That she would open her legs all the more and lift them up. Having given the correct answer I allowed her to proceed to the final section of the exam.
I untied her legs and slid back into her, as deeply as I could and was rewarded with a deep and heartfelt cry of pleasure and passion. We made love this way as she came once and then brought her legs up to my sides. At first she squeezed just a bit as she came and then started to pull her legs away. I told her that I liked the pressure because it was another way for her to communicate to me how she was feeling in our lovemaking and so she clamped her legs to me with real passion as I took her again to the place of release. I could tell that she hated having to wait to come until she told me but I loved hearing it every single time. I loved the urgency in her voice and she struggled to get the words out in time over the rising tide of her orgasm. Finally, as she built to another release I decided that it was time to let myself go. Spurred on by her cries and moans I could feel the tightening in my balls and the heat in skin. As I released my orgasm she crashed over the edge with me and we came together.
As we came down from our passion I was amazed at what our lovemaking had been. I was amzed at the power of our imaginations and what they gave us in our lovemaking. I'm pretty sure that we aren't into hardcore bdsm but rather it is a tool that we will use from time to time to spur our imaginations on; something to include in our play together.
By the way, for those of you wondering what her grade on the test was I would have to say a B+ with the only negative marks coming on the backside portion of the test. She's shown that she can do a good job of receiving and appreciating what she has received so now we'll move to the unit on giving and see how that goes. There will be homeowk, quizzes and and exam on that portion as well...